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Perspective Taking

Author(s):

Tonya Marie Pan, MA, MS

Editor’s Note: This piece was submitted by a contributing writer and does not represent the views of CURE Media Group.

Perspective Taking

What's the difference between a teachable moment

and guilt and shame?

He feels remorse all the same

His body betrayed him

He is still not used to his brain

What can he do differently?

Clearly, he’s not the same

Alone time is a new necessity

Loneliness is his new reality

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