One of the best known in this category is Wendy
Harpham, MD, author of six books about cancer. Dr. Harpham
was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma in 1990 and
has since undergone every conceivable issue related to cancer:
choosing experimental treatment over conventional, coping
with raising small children, living with cancer-related fatigue,
experiencing seven recurrences and, finally, having to recognize
that her old life as a family practice physician was gone
forever, which led her to ask, “What am I going to do
for the rest of my life?”
Luckily, she was committed to educating her patients, so
when she was first diagnosed she wrote a pamphlet for them
about all the things to do when you learn you have cancer.
It turned into a book called Diagnosis: Cancer that
was published, ironically, the month she found out about her
first recurrence.
Diagnosis: Cancer was followed by After
Cancer: A Guide to Your New Life, which
provides cancer survivors with questions and issues to
address as they move out of treatment and into what Dr.
Harpham coined as the “new normal.”
Her next book When a Parent Has Cancer was
an obvious choice. She and her husband, Ted, had been raising
three children while “doing cancer,” and Dr. Harpham
wanted to share all the wisdom about how to help children
and parents cope with the experience. Tucked inside the back
cover is a children’s book, Becky and the
Worry Cup, written about the experiences of
Dr. Harpham’s oldest daughter Rebecca. The
Hope Tree: Kids Talk about Breast Cancer came
next. Dr. Harpham co-authored this illustrated children’s
book with Laura Numeroff to help families talk with their
children.
And last year, Dr. Harpham released Happiness
in a Storm: Facing Illness and Embracing Life as a Healthy
Survivor, which addresses survivorship from
all illnesses and provides practical philosophy and science-based
knowledge to get good medical care and find happiness
while you are sick. Far from an “always stay positive” approach, Happiness
in a Storm promotes looking realistically
at your life and finding ways to make it the best it can
be under the circumstances—living each day with
as much joy as possible.
For Dr. Harpham, her books have shown one thing: Healing
can take place not only in a doctor’s office but in
the pages of a book. Authoring books and speaking nationwide
about healthy survivorship has become the new normal in her
life, which is still filled with uncertainty and cancer. In
fall 2005, she experienced her seventh recurrence and has
once again exited the other side with new knowledge and wisdom
to share information about the “new and improved” immunotherapy
she received.
Now on maintenance therapy, Dr. Harpham will present the
keynote address at the CURE Patient & Survivor Forum in
San Diego this November. Look for the full story on Dr. Harpham
and her family dealing with cancer as a chronic disease in
this summer’s special survivors issue.
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