| Facing the Challenge
By Heidi schultz Adams
The fight against breast cancer is waged on many levels: in families,
communities, and nations. But at the heart of a breast cancer diagnosis
is an intensely personal battle fought over and over, one individual
at a time. Drugs, radiation, and surgical techniques only go so
far. Where those end, each person must reach deep inside for resources
she may never have known she had.
Here are the stories of four women who have beaten the odds, each a remarkable,
living illustration of the strengths that sustain us in the fight against cancer.
Determination
Ildiko Strehli grew up training as an elite athlete in Hungary. At 30, a newlywed,
she had just moved to Pennsylvania when she was diagnosed with breast cancer
in 1995. Undeterred, she taught skiing full-time during radiation and chemotherapy.
“It wasn’t so much that skiing was important, as to keep on with
my life,” she says. “To feel I am in charge. I didn’t want
cancer to change the essence of who I was.”
Afterwards, Strehli and her husband moved to Utah, where she discovered bobsledding
and rose to world-class status. Two years later, a recurrence sidelined her for
a bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction. Then came the announcement: Women’s
bobsled would be an Olympic event.
“It gave me a reason to live,” she says. “I wanted to take
the pink ribbon to the Olympics to show you can achieve your dreams, even after
going through breast cancer twice.” She was competing within a month after
surgery, although unable to even lift her arms over her head. They named the
team “Sled Full of Hope.”
But the International Olympic Committee nixed the idea of a pink ribbon on the
sled. No logos, they said. Hungarian officials warned her to obey, and she did.
The sled’s sole decoration was the word “Hungary”—written
in huge, unmistakable pink ribbons of script. That day, although her team did
not medal, Strehli won.
“I didn’t fight that long for someone at the last second to say, ‘Sorry,
but you have to give up what brought you all the way here.’”
Today, archery is Strehli’s new passion. She plans to win an Olympic medal
for the United States, her adopted country, in 2008. Watch for her—she’ll
be the one with the pink quiver.
Knowledge
“I’m such an engineer type,” says Jane Reese-Coulbourne wryly. “My
approach was always to gather data and figure out the choices.” When she
was diagnosed with stage III breast cancer in 1990, data presented a stark picture:
a 30-40% chance of living five years. She might make it to her 40th birthday.
She might not.
After researching her options, she chose a phase II dosing trial, where her chemotherapy
dosage increased each round until they hit tolerance—a devastating regimen,
particularly without today’s antinausea medications.
“I felt that I had one shot,” says Reese-Coulbourne. “I wanted
the big guns. And if it didn’t work, at least I’d know I did everything
I could.” Eight grueling rounds later, she was declared cancer-free.
A year later, Reese-Coulbourne helped start the National Breast Cancer Coalition,
which promotes advocacy, research, and access to care. Today, she consults with
nonprofits,
government, and pharmaceutical companies on cancer-related issues. Recent projects
include developing compassionate use and expanded access programs for new drugs. “Because
I understand all the parts—business, patients, government—I can help
people talk to each other,” she says. “But what’s always number
one for me is, ‘What’s the benefit for the patient?’ Because
that’s what it’s really all about.”
Hope
In 1997, 33-year-old Judy Pickett was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Since then, she has faced it twice more. She has also run nearly
100 races nationwide—once carrying the Olympic torch—to
raise awareness about early detection, particularly in young
women. "This is the race I've been training for my whole
life," she says.
Before each race, she speaks in the host city about advocacy and
early detection. But things changed after her second recurrence.
"
My original intent was awareness and education," says Pickett. "After
my third diagnosis, I also focused on hope. I say, 'Look! Almost
seven years down the road, I'm still running, still strong—and
you can be, too.'
"
There are new treatments all the time. After the third diagnosis,
I ran two races on Taxotere, bald as a baby. It wasn't even available
when I was treated the first time.
"
There's so much progress that people shouldn't give up on their
hopes and dreams," she says. "They don't have to. I'm
a living example of that."
Acceptance
Twenty years is several lifetimes in the fight against cancer.
Ask 52-year-old Angie Augur, who has lived with breast cancer since
1983.
For the first decade, the recurrences were localized, treated with lumpectomy,
chemotherapy, radiation, and a
bilateral mastectomy. Then, in 1996, the cancer
spread to her liver and bones.
“When they told me I had liver lesions, it sounded like a death sentence,” says
Augur. “But then it was a year later, and things weren’t all that
much worse.” Today, she keeps the disease in check with cutting-edge treatment,
including radiation, Xeloda® (capecitabine), and Taxotere® (docetaxel).
“When I look back, if someone had told me on day one that I was going to
spend the next 20 years fighting these battles, I would have thrown up my hands
and said, ‘I can’t do that!’” she reflects. “But
when you take it one step at a time, you learn from each step. You learn to accept
it, live with it. Then you can handle it. Whatever it’s going to take to
face the things ahead of me, God will give it to me. And when I look at it that
way, there’s no reason to be fearful.”
Faith
“Have a blessed day,” is the cheerful message on Renee Johnson Cole's
answering machine—a simple message that packs extraordinary power, when
you consider that Johnson Cole was diagnosed with breast cancer 10 years ago
at 31, within a year of losing her son in a car accident. Since then, she has
endured spinal metastases and more than 20 surgeries, including a hysterectomy
and removal of both breasts.
In the midst of her own health problems, Johnson Cole left corporate America
to minister to others. “My life dictated to me what my purpose was: not
to have a testimony but to be a testimony to the power of God and medicine and
all of it working together,” she says. “I find strength in helping
others. I’m walking in my destiny.”
Her ministry is active, motivating. She encourages participation and responsibility. “Dare
to care about yourself,” she challenges. “Do not yield to your diagnosis,
but act with a sound mind. Know your body. Educate yourself.”
Today, she continues hormone therapy and bone-strengthening treatments. And wherever
she is, she shares her message with patients, families, caregivers, and medical
professionals.
“In life, we’re like a caterpillar and a butterfly,” she says. “The
end of life to a caterpillar is the beginning of life to a butterfly. One way
or another, we will all soar. And when it’s my time to fly, I will have
done my job.”
These four remarkable women, their lives transformed by extraordinary adversity,
are vibrant examples of the strength within us all. Four lives that show us how—with
determination, knowledge, hope, faith, and acceptance—we can all soar.
Heidi Schultz Adams founded Planet Cancer, an organization for young adults facing
cancer, after her own bout with sarcoma. |